Friday, September 28, 2012

Overcoming the Fear of Manifesting Your Heart’s Desire

When you turn your will over to God-Goddess, you may expect to be given specific instructions. That would be easy for then you would never have to wonder or make up your own mind. Guess what? God-Goddess will not interfere with your free will or tell you what you need to do or what you must desire or create. Instead, He/She asks you, “What do you want to do? Where do you want to live?”

God-Goddess’s will for your life parallels your own true desires. He/She gives us the desires of our heart. That means that the answer is always “Yes!” It means that whatever desire is in your heart—whatever you really want to do—is your true path. What is it that limits us from taking the risk and making changes that would help us reach our higher destiny? Fear. Very simply, the fear of the unknown, the fear of loss/failure, even the fear of success stands as a roadblock whenever you think of doing something drastically new. One way I’ve learned to work around this fear is to make a plan or a road map with my goals clearly stated. I look at all the pros and cons—realizing that the pros are my desires and the cons are my fears.

Then, I ask myself a few questions:

1. What is the worst thing that could happen if the cons manifested?
2. How likely are the cons to actually occur?
3. How will I feel in ten years if I don’t make this change now?
4. What steps could I take now toward releasing my fears?
5. What is the best thing that could happen if I reap all the pros on my list?
6. How would I feel if I had my heart’s desire right now? (Feelings and emotions are powerful tools for manifesting!)

If you decide to take the risk and make a change, you can start small with a few baby steps. For example, if you want to finish your college degree, you could check out what financing options (grants, loans) are available. If you want to take art classes, see what is available in your area. If you need more time for yourself, look into finding a sitter for your children so you can better care for your physical body and emotional needs.

We find out who we really are by following what we really desire. We are not who we think we are. We are much more!


Yvonne Perry is an empath coach, metaphysical teacher, spiritual author, and the host of We Are One in Spirit Podcast. In 2011, she published Whose Stuff Is This? ~ Finding Freedom of the Thoughts, Feelings, and Energy of Those Around You in which she candidly discussed how we pick up energy around us, and how it affects us. It teaches how to identify our own energy versus the energy of people around us. She is available for private spiritual coaching and as a speaker for your group. 

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